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[hoisinsauce]

I TAKE IT BACK, GO BACK TO FUCKING THE HOUSE!

(https://secretfanspace.dreamwidth.org/2511.html?thread=3560655#cmt3560655)

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Re: Fandom Things - FFA, what happened to you...?

[(Anonymous)]

Since hate-reading ffa came up elsewhere on meme, I took a glance at ffa in flat view, and saw this post in a subthread about stuff people find hot:

Pregnancy in addition to possessiveness/protectiveness that borders on creepy. The non-pregnant partner telling the pregnant one "this is my baby you're carrying, nothing bad will happen to you, I'll make sure nobody so much as looks at you the wrong way". But also with loving touch, hot sex, genuine sweetness. Just with lots of possessive dirty talk, as the pregnant partner gets lovingly railed.

And am struck, all over again, how "gender neutral language" has no place anywhere in the same galaxy as writing that is attempting to be sexy.

Re: Fandom Things - FFA, what happened to you...?

[(Anonymous)]

Not a fan of "railed", either, but at least it's better than "non-pregnant partner".

(Yeah, mpreg has a long history in fandom, but then just say "guy" or whatever you're into; it's obvious who you're talking about from context, without needing robot-speak)

Re: Fandom Things - FFA, what happened to you...?

[(Anonymous)]

Gender-neutral language makes sense since it's probably not a gender-specific kink, but ugh, there's definitely better ways to do it without resorting to the clinical unsexiness of 'non-pregnant partner.' Even 'the one who isn't pregnant' would sound better.

But I don't even think you need to specify there? The scenario is clear enough.

Telling them "this is my baby you're carrying, nothing bad will happen to you, I'll make sure nobody so much as looks at you the wrong way". But also with loving touch, hot sex, genuine sweetness. Just with lots of possessive dirty talk, as the pregnant partner gets lovingly railed.

Could probably get rid of the 'pregnant partner' at the end too, but you'd need to refactor harder.